Get Good at Going Down

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How can I give better oral sex?

Get Good at Going Down

Getting really good at oral sex takes practice. (Aw, poor you...) Next time you give oral pleasure, try these oral sex techniques:

Oral Sex: Male
Constant stimulation by mouth and tongue on the penis can get tedious. Switch from mouth to hand. (The trick here is not to lose your rhythm.) Start with a combination of hand and mouth, licking your palm to get it lubricated. Let the hand take over, then use your mouth and tongue to gently lick your partner's balls. After a while, switch back. Your now-moistened fingers can be used to cup and stroke the balls or even begin anal play, if desired.

Oral Sex: Female
One of the most flexible parts of our bodies is the tongue – certainly more flexible than the penis (which explains why so many women love oral sex). This oral sex technique will get her going. Use the tip of your tongue for clitoral stimulation, but don't stimulate too hard or too directly, as some women are oversensitive to this. Alternate by flattening your tongue and slowly (really slowly) licking from the base of her vagina to the top, as though you're licking an ice cream cone. As she gets more aroused, use your fingers to penetrate her vagina. Again, start out slowly and build up a faster rhythm, while simultaneously penetrating her more deeply. Don't forget to keep up the tongue action!



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