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All the skills in the world are not going to make you the greatest lover. What does give you a better sex technique is paying attention to the person you are making love to. In other words, think of your lover as a blank canvas. Sure, you'll bring your past experiences to the canvas and paint with a few of your favorite colors, but pay attention to the kinds of strokes your canvas needs to make that painting beautiful. You are the artist, but without your subject, you've got nothing!
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|