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Positions? Plural ? Yes, indeedy. It's not all about sticking your head between your reclining lover's legs. Here are a few alternatives to try:

  • Both partners can take turns being on top, straddling you lover's face. For women, this can be a great way to control the amount of stimulation they're receiving. For men, it's a good way to adjust depth of penetration. Keep in mind, though, that this position can be harder on the one performing oral sex. Don't sit down too heavily or thrust so much that you crush or choke your lover.
  • The classic “69” position involves giving mutual oral sex. Both of you lie in opposite directions, on your back and stomach, respectively or on your sides. Some people find it hard to give and receive pleasure at the same time, so test this out to see if it works for you. It may be a nice interlude rather than a means to climax.
  • If you're in bed, each lover can take turns kneeling or squatting on the floor at the edge of the bed. The receiving partner sits (or reclines) with his/her feet dangling off the edge. The performing partner can put a pillow under the knees to avoid getting tired. Bonus Tip: Receiving partner, drape your legs over your lover's shoulders. This gives better access to all of your genitals as well as the anus, for light stroking or full anal stimulation/penetration.



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