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Many couples make the mistake of comparing their sex lives to others'. Bad idea. Each couple is like an individual blade of grass. While it's true that a lot of them that look alike, some are shorter, thicker, greener, drier. These dissimilarities don't cease to make each one a blade of grass.
To graduate from having sex to making love, stop comparing. Your friends may have sex every other day without fail and not have established the intimacy that the two of you have when you make love only once a week. Maybe that works for them. Your only concern is what works for you .