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Here's a simple way to keep intimacy in your relationship: Leave love notes. Maybe that's excessive for you, but even once in a while it's a nice treat.
Write a quick “I love you” or some sweet message and leave it in a place you know your lover will find it: Briefcase, refrigerator door, gym bag, pillow… Get creative. If you had great sex the night before, leave a thank you note. You get the idea. (One woman I know left a note for her lover that said, “Thanks for the spinal adjustment.” Humor is a great way to say I love you.) Don't worry if you're no Shakespeare; it's not so much what you say as that you took the time to say you're thinking about him/her.