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Giving a man a truly great erotic massage involves delaying orgasm as long as possible. If you know your partner well enough to know when he's just about to hit the point of no return, good for you. If not, your partner should make some sort of signal for you to stop before he ejaculates. Don't withdraw your hands completely, simply, slow your movements or switch to a deep thigh massage, using the same rhythm as you had just been using on this penis. (Changing rhythm can be too jarring and you'll lose the mood.) Continue the stimulation/retraction sequence at least three times. The resulting orgasm will be much more intense.
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|